Who would have known that the troubled girl would eventually become this woman? Who could have thought that pain, sorrow and trauma would birth a new thinking and that thinking, …
Whatever you go through in your life will help others
People who have risen above the severe tides of adversities are life’s warriors. The scars of their battles bear the witness of their triumphs. These categories of people are better …
The past doesn’t have to mirror the future: rewriting your family’s History
“Thinking about what you think about 1 is one of the most profound yet challenging ways to build a better life, become a better person, and change the past of …
Being a working mom should not stop your family vacation time!
Growing up in a single-mother household, we didn’t really get to experience family vacations or any fun unless we went with a friend’s family. It wasn’t until I became an …
8 Reasons no one should condone or tolerate domestic violence
Domestic violence is an issue that anyone in a relationship (of any kind) should not wish to experience, and I dare to say that no one should mete it out …
Checklist for newly married couples and couples about to marry
Relationships leading to a marriage should be nurtured in a tremendous and intentional way. Marriage is a new and different phase of any romantic relationship. So, to newly married couples …
Be the spouse you want: how to complement your future partner
You have probably read my other guest articles; if you have not, you can catch up here, here and here. And here too. I’m a Nigerian and I live in …
Understanding healthy and effective communication in relationships
Almost everyone can talk, but not everyone can communicate effectively. Some people find verbal expression enjoyable, while some use fewer words when expressing emotions, feelings, desires or values. I have …
Managing and living with domestic helpers
In life, people come, and people go. We walk through life living for others and also being helped by others. It’s the nature of humans. If you are lucky enough …
Why I’m happy I’m not married yet!
I guess you are laughing and maybe curious as to the title for this post. Imagine saying that with my full chest—a Nigerian way of saying you do something with …